Laura Duncan hugging another woman warmly in a home, one smiling, with a decorative sign spelling JOY on the wall behind them.

WHERE IT STARTED

The Compassion Method™

This isn't theory. It came out of Laura's own grief, and what she learned meeting it instead of pushing past it.

Laura Duncan hugging another woman warmly in a home, one smiling, with a decorative sign spelling JOY on the wall behind them.

WHERE IT STARTED

The Compassion Method™

This isn't theory. It came out of Laura's own grief, and what she learned meeting it instead of pushing past it.

Laura Duncan hugging another woman warmly in a home, one smiling, with a decorative sign spelling JOY on the wall behind them.

WHERE IT STARTED

The Compassion Method™

This isn't theory. It came out of Laura's own grief, and what she learned meeting it instead of pushing past it.

WHAT IT IS

Pain isn't meant to be fixed. It's meant to be felt and comforted.

Most of us manage our pain instead of bringing it to God. The Compassion Method isn't another coping mechanism. It's feeling what you've avoided, receiving comfort for it, and finding your way back to who you were before pain covered you up.

A man in a dark top resting a hand over their heart.

WHAT IT IS

Pain isn't meant to be fixed. It's meant to be felt and comforted.

Most of us manage our pain instead of bringing it to God. The Compassion Method isn't another coping mechanism. It's feeling what you've avoided, receiving comfort for it, and finding your way back to who you were before pain covered you up.

A man in a dark top resting a hand over their heart.

WHAT IT IS

Pain isn't meant to be fixed. It's meant to be felt and comforted.

Most of us manage our pain instead of bringing it to God. The Compassion Method isn't another coping mechanism. It's feeling what you've avoided, receiving comfort for it, and finding your way back to who you were before pain covered you up.

A man in a dark top resting a hand over their heart.

HOW IT WORKS

From Triggered to True.

01

Triggered Self. The reactive part of you that shows up when something hits a nerve: anger, shutdown, control.

02

Child Self. The younger version of you still carrying what didn't get met the first time around.

03

Self-Compassion. Learning to offer yourself the comfort that was missing, instead of managing around it.

04

True Self. Who you’ve always been, the person God made, uncovered as your pain is felt and comforted.

HOW IT WORKS

From Triggered to True.

01

Triggered Self. The reactive part of you that shows up when something hits a nerve: anger, shutdown, control.

02

Child Self. The younger version of you still carrying what didn't get met the first time around.

03

Self-Compassion. Learning to offer yourself the comfort that was missing, instead of managing around it.

04

True Self. Who you’ve always been, the person God made, uncovered as your pain is felt and comforted.

HOW IT WORKS

From Triggered to True.

01

Triggered Self. The reactive part of you that shows up when something hits a nerve: anger, shutdown, control.

02

Child Self. The younger version of you still carrying what didn't get met the first time around.

03

Self-Compassion. Learning to offer yourself the comfort that was missing, instead of managing around it.

04

True Self. Who you’ve always been, the person God made, uncovered as your pain is felt and comforted.

COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS

A few things worth clearing up.

Not Therapy.

This isn’t clinical treatment. It’s a process for feeling your pain, receiving comfort for it, and rediscovering who you are.

Doesn't replace your faith.

Nothing here asks you to choose between the two. Brian found the whole method summed up in one verse: ‘Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it’. The Compassion Method is a practical way to do exactly that.

Not just for women.

Laura built the Compassion Method from her own grief, not for one audience. Brian's own experience with it is proof it holds just as well for men.

COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS

A few things worth clearing up.

Not Therapy.

This isn’t clinical treatment. It’s a process for feeling your pain, receiving comfort for it, and rediscovering who you are.

Doesn't replace your faith.

Nothing here asks you to choose between the two. Brian found the whole method summed up in one verse: ‘Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it’. The Compassion Method is a practical way to do exactly that.

Not just for women.

Laura built the Compassion Method from her own grief, not for one audience. Brian's own experience with it is proof it holds just as well for men.

COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS

A few things worth clearing up.

Not Therapy.

This isn’t clinical treatment. It’s a process for feeling your pain, receiving comfort for it, and rediscovering who you are.

Doesn't replace your faith.

Nothing here asks you to choose between the two. Brian found the whole method summed up in one verse: ‘Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it’. The Compassion Method is a practical way to do exactly that.

Not just for women.

Laura built the Compassion Method from her own grief, not for one audience. Brian's own experience with it is proof it holds just as well for men.

Laura Duncan, creator of The Compassion Method, smiling in a tan cardigan against a dark wall.

LAURA DUNCAN

Creator of The Compassion Method.

Laura created The Compassion Method after the devastating loss of her husband to ALS, Healing comes not from fixing pain, or feeling it alone, but from meeting it with compassion.

Laura Duncan, creator of The Compassion Method, smiling in a tan cardigan against a dark wall.

LAURA DUNCAN

Creator of The Compassion Method.

Laura created The Compassion Method after the devastating loss of her husband to ALS, Healing comes not from fixing pain, or feeling it alone, but from meeting it with compassion.

Laura Duncan, creator of The Compassion Method, smiling in a tan cardigan against a dark wall.

LAURA DUNCAN

Creator of The Compassion Method.

Laura created The Compassion Method after the devastating loss of her husband to ALS, Healing comes not from fixing pain, or feeling it alone, but from meeting it with compassion.

GO DEEPER

Learn straight from Laura.

You know what it's about now. In her courses, Laura walks you through it, part by part, so you can learn it directly from the source.

Laura Duncan with a hand over her heart, seated near a podcast microphone.

GO DEEPER

Learn straight from Laura.

You know what it's about now. In her courses, Laura walks you through it, part by part, so you can learn it directly from the source.

Laura Duncan with a hand over her heart, seated near a podcast microphone.

GO DEEPER

Learn straight from Laura.

You know what it's about now. In her courses, Laura walks you through it, part by part, so you can learn it directly from the source.

Laura Duncan with a hand over her heart, seated near a podcast microphone.

A REAL STORY

This is what it looks like lived out.

Cherene smiling outdoors in a dark top, leaning on a railing.

The Compassion Method was a turning point — it gave me a wholeness I never thought possible and taught me to see myself and others with compassion. The podcasts reinforced this exactly how I needed, helping me apply it. Knowing the tools isn't enough; walking through them makes the difference.

Cherene

A REAL STORY

This is what it looks like lived out.

The Compassion Method was a turning point — it gave me a wholeness I never thought possible and taught me to see myself and others with compassion. The podcasts reinforced this exactly how I needed, helping me apply it. Knowing the tools isn't enough; walking through them makes the difference.

Cherene

A REAL STORY

This is what it looks like lived out.

Cherene smiling outdoors in a dark top, leaning on a railing.

The Compassion Method was a turning point — it gave me a wholeness I never thought possible and taught me to see myself and others with compassion. The podcasts reinforced this exactly how I needed, helping me apply it. Knowing the tools isn't enough; walking through them makes the difference.

Cherene

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Two emails a week. No pressure, no spam.

Freedom, peace, and rest start somewhere. It can be here.

We'll never share your email. Unsubscribe anytime.

FREE · WEEKLY DOSE OF COMPASSION

Two emails a week. No pressure, no spam.

Freedom, peace, and rest start somewhere. It can be here.

We'll never share your email. Unsubscribe anytime.

If you don't honor your pain, you'll never properly comfort your heart.

LAURA DUNCAN

If you don't honor your pain, you'll never properly comfort your heart.

LAURA DUNCAN

If you don't honor your pain, you'll never properly comfort your heart.

LAURA DUNCAN

Triggered and true

You've read what it is. Now hear what it does.

Triggered and true

You've read what it is. Now hear what it does.

Triggered and true

You've read what it is. Now hear what it does.